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5 Reasons Why I Won’t Lead My Wife (Provocative Church) — great post!

Posted in Church Life, Family, Leadership on June 5, 2007 by Matthew R. Perry

Last night my wife and were talking. We were talking through some questions and issues of faith and life. During our conversation, I picked up on a couple of issues that have been a reoccurring theme in her relationship with God (at this point those issues will remain cryptic - this is my blog and not hers and therefore I am entitled to expose myself and not my wife).  I felt the Lord impress on my heart that I needed to step up to lead her and disciple her through these issues. I made the big pronouncement that we should do this Bible Study together that really helped me sort out this stuff in my own life and walk with the Lord.

As soon as I spoke those words, I felt impending doom. I had made those pronouncements before. But when push came to shove, I didn’t deliver. During some time with God this morning I came up with 5 reasons why I won’t lead my wife.


(Click here to read the five reasons. He absolutely nails it!)

(HT: Mark Combs)

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Theologically-Driven Preaching (Daniel Akin)

Posted in Church Life, For Preachers/Pastors, For Seminary Students, Leadership, Preaching on April 21, 2007 by Matthew R. Perry

Dr. Daniel Akin, President of the Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary in Wake Forest, North Carolina, has written a very helpful pamphlet on the necessity of theologically-driven preaching for the church.

(HT: Thabati Anyabwile

CAN THEOLOGICALLY DRIVEN PREACHING HELP RESCUE THE SBC?
By: Daniel L. Akin

The Conservative Resurgence gave Southern Baptist a second chance but it did not secure our future. Has there been a Resurgence? Yes. Has there been a Restoration? Doubtful. Have we experienced genuine Revival? Clearly the answer is no.

Eight Theological Essentials for Southern Baptists in the 21st Century
1) The non-negotiable of a regenerate Church (John 3; Rom. 3; 2 Cor. 5; Gal. 3)

  • First, we need to make it clear that church membership is a privilege, not a right.
  • Second, we must preach against easy believism and reject any form of a compromised gospel.
  • Third, we must be careful with respect to our own theological integrity concerning infant or early adolescent baptism that lacks a clear understanding and confession of the gospel.

2) The essential nature of believers baptism by immersion with a biblical appreciation for its significance. (Matt. 28; Acts, Rom. 6)

That baptism involved a particular member (a believer), mode (immersion) and meaning (public identification with Christ and the believing community) is grounded in New Testament witness and has been a hallmark of Baptists throughout their history.

We must see evidence of regeneration for those we baptize. The baptism of young children must be administered with the greatest possible care.

Baptism should be viewed and emphasized as a first and necessary step of discipleship and obedience to Christ. We will reject as inconceivable the idea of admitting anyone into our membership without believer’s baptism by immersion.

3) The recovery of the lost jewels of church discipline and genuine disciple-making as essential marks of the Church.

Church discipline is clearly and repeatedly taught in the New Testament, yet most do not preach on it or practice it. Jesus addresses it in Matt. 18:15-20 and Paul does so several times in 1 Cor. 5:1-13; 2 Cor. 2:5-11; Gal. 6:1-2; and Titus 3:9-11.

Theologically it is to disobey the plain teachings of Scripture and ignore the necessity of church discipline in maintaining the purity of the church.

  • First, we must preach and teach our people what the Bible says about church discipline.
  • Second, we must begin to implement church discipline lovingly, wisely, gently, carefully and slowly.
  • Third, we must apply discipline to areas like absentee membership as well as the specific list provided by Paul in 1 Cor. 5.

4) The emphasis and practice of a genuinely Word-based ministry (2 Tim. 4:1-5)For those of us who profess to believe in both the inerrancy and sufficiency of Scripture, there must be in our churches what I call “engaging exposition.”We must advocate an expositional method with a theological mindset under an evangelical mandate. It is preaching that models for our people how they should study, interpret and teach the Bible.

5) The vision for a faithful and authentic biblical ecclesiology (Acts. 2; Eph. 4; Pastorals)

  • First, there must be the 4 marks of 1) a regenerate Church membership, 2) the Word, 3) the Ordinances and 4) Church Discipline.
  • Second the local church should be elder/pastor led and congregationally governed. Here, in my judgment, there is room for flexibility in terms of patterns, structure and implementation.

As we move forward in this century, Pastors will need to give particular attention to a theology of stewardship and discipleship.

The members of our churches must move from being shoppers to buyers to investors.

6) The continued nurturing of a fervent missionary and evangelistic passion that is wedded to a healthy and robust theology (1 Thess. 1; Eph. 4:11-16; Jude 3-4; Rev. 5)

No church will be evangelistic by accident.
First, there are multiple ways churches can do missions and evangelism. That we do it is the key.

Marketplace evangelism which can reach into the workplace is an area needing attention, strategizing and training.

Youth and student evangelism needs renewed emphasis.

Theologically and biblically, we must challenge our people to evangelize without bias or prejudice, loving and going after the exploding ethnic and minority groups where we live.

7) The teaching and preaching of a 1st century biblical model for church planting (Acts 17)
The 21st century is more like the 1st century than has ever been the case in our Western culture.

We are losing America and the West because we are losing the great metropolitan areas where there is a concentration of people.

  • First, explore creative methods, but make sure that they are faithfully filtered through the purifying waters of Holy Scripture.
  • Second, be wise fishers of men.
  • Third, we must ask God to raise a new generation of godly and gifted church planters and missionaries.

8) The wisdom to look back and remember who we were so that as we move forward we will not forget who we are

The Southern Baptist Convention today is not the Southern Baptist Convention of your parents, and certainly not your grandparents.

We now have several generations who know almost nothing of William Carey and Adoniram Judson, Bill Wallace, Lottie Moon and Annie Armstrong. They do know nothing of Boyce, Broadus, and Manly; Carroll, Robertson, Frost, Mullins and Truett.

They have never heard Criswell, Rogers or Vines preach, and they are not really sure who they are.

In creative and dynamic avenues fitting a 21st century context, we need to retell the Baptist History story in a way that will grab the attention and stir the hearts of our people. And we need to do it, at least in part, from the pulpit.

Conclusion:
The North Carolina evangelist Vance Havner said, “What we live is what we really believe.”

Grunge Christianity? MacArthur Speaks on Driscoll-esque Preaching

Posted in Church Life, For Preachers/Pastors, For Seminary Students, Leadership, Preaching on March 3, 2007 by Matthew R. Perry

I confess, I am a Mark Driscoll fan — to a point.  I concur with John MacArthur about Driscoll:

“He is a very effective communicator—a bright, witty, clever, funny, insightful, crude, profane, deliberately shocking, in-your-face kind of guy. His soteriology is exactly right, but that only makes his infatuation with the vulgar aspects of contemporary society more disturbing.”

Driscoll pastors the Mars Hill Church in Seattle.  I have benefited greatly from Driscoll’s sermons on Jesus, the atonement — and really everything he has preached.  Yet, he preaches in Seattle in a basically left-wing “grunge” community where his speaking style really chimes with the people.  I wrote about him previously (here) and mentioned he is someone that I wish I could recommend to my people here at Boone’s Creek, but just can’t because of his maverick-style delivery.

MacArthur has an excellent word for all young aspiring preachers. Click here to read .

New MacArthur Transcripts at Bible Bulletin Board

Posted in Environment, Family, Finances, For Preachers/Pastors, For Seminary Students, Leadership, Sermons, Theology on December 27, 2006 by Matthew R. Perry

Tony Capoccia of the Bible Bulletin Board has posted seven new John MacArthur transcripts of sermons dealing with a wide range of issues. His ministry posts sermons by MacArthur, Spurgeon, J.C. Ryle and Jonathan Edwards to name a few. Here are the most recent additions:

What Should a Wife’s Priorities Be? Can She Work Outside the Home?
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/jm-176404.htm

The Unity of Strong and Weak Christians, Part 4 [Romans 14:16-23]
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/jm-231251.htm

Christians and Politics, Parts 1-4
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/politics1-4.htm

True Servants of Christ
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/jm-231543.htm

True Success in Christian Leadership
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/jm-231292.htm

The Purpose of the Law [Galatians 3]
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/jm-231570.htm

Evangelicalism and the Environmental Movement
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/jm-231546.htm

How To Prevent a Church Split: An Excellent Series from Pure Church

Posted in Church Life, For Preachers/Pastors, For Seminary Students, Leadership on November 7, 2006 by Matthew R. Perry

Thabiti Anyabwile who pastors a church in the Grand Caymans and administrates an excellent blog known as Pure Church has written an excellent five-part series on how to prevent a church split. I hope you will take time to read this excellent contribution.

Part I, Part II, Part III, Part IV, Part V

Focus on the Family Deals With Ted Haggard’s Moral Failure

Posted in Church Life, For Preachers/Pastors, For Seminary Students, Leadership on November 6, 2006 by Matthew R. Perry

Focus on the Family devotes their entire show today to the moral failure of Teg Haggard who recently resigned as head of the National Association of Evangelicals. Ravi Zacharias, Al Mohler and H.B. London discuss sin issues and clergy and how the church should respond. They analyze the symptoms and the serious consequences to the cause of Christ. They also offer a hotline for those who are struggling in the pastorate with sexual issues (the pastors may call anonymously). The number is 877-233-4455.

Also, Above All Things has an excellent blog entry about Three Signs of Ted Haggard’s Conversion that is well worth reading. Also, Don Whitney’s sermon, “The Almost Inevitable Ruin of Every Minister … and How To Avoid It” is a must-listen for every pastor.

Here’s a Scripture:

Mark 9:42-50
“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea. And if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than with two hands to go to hell, to the unquenchable fire. And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life lame than with two feet to be thrown into hell. And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into hell, ‘where their worm does not die and the fire is not quenched.’ For everyone will be salted with fire. Salt is good, but if the salt has lost its saltiness, how will you make it salty again? Have salt in yourselves, and be at peace with one another.”

Top Reasons for Staff Termination in Churches

Posted in Church Life, For Preachers/Pastors, For Seminary Students, Leadership on October 30, 2006 by Matthew R. Perry

Chris Turner of LifeWay has posted a new article regarding the top reasons for staff termination in churches. And sadly, each of them deal with relationship issues — issues that have not changed since 1996.

The general inability to “get along” is again at the root of the top five reasons staff members in Southern Baptist churches are terminated from their positions, according to a recently completed study by LifeWay Christian Resources’ department of pastoral ministries.

Relational issues top the list for the 10th consecutive year, according to Bob Sheffield, pastoral ministries specialist. The top five are

Click here to read the rest of the article.

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Tim Keller’s Defeater Beliefs

Posted in Church Life, Culture, For Preachers/Pastors, Leadership, Missions on October 27, 2006 by Matthew R. Perry

tim-keller2.gifDaily, I am gaining more and more respect for Tim Keller, who serves as pastor of Redeemer Church in New York City. Notice the vision:

Redeemer’s vision is to spread the gospel, first through ourselves and then through the city by word, deed, and community; To bring about personal changes, social healing, and cultural renewal through a movement of churches and ministries that change New York City and through it, the world.

He has an excellent article dealing with what he calls “Defeater Beliefs” which expresses and answers many of the doubts about Christianity that arise specifically in our culture. He incorporated that in a lecture he gave at Covenant Seminary not long ago about Preaching to Believers and Unbelievers (this is an mp3). I listened to this as I traveled to see my dad in North Carolina on Thursday — and I felt it was one of the most revolutionary sermons I’d heard dealing with preaching. But the article will be helpful — a bit technical but worth the read for preacher and layperson alike.

Steve McCoy at Reformissionary has a host of resources from Tim Keller (click here). . More and more, I’m becoming convinced how important it is for a visible presence to be made in the community and how we are to be missionaries where we are.

The Heartbreak of Sin (Hershael York)

Posted in For Preachers/Pastors, For Seminary Students, Leadership, Theology, Worship on October 2, 2006 by Matthew R. Perry

Dr. Hershael York published this on our preaching blog at Him We Proclaim, but I feel that this readership needed to read and heed — especially us preachers!

The older I get, the more I witness the heartache of sin. The more I see its results, the more I hate sin.

God has been doing a work in my heart and my life in the past several months. He has been forcing me to face what lies on the other side of the “pleasures of sin for a season.” Adrian Rogers used to say, “Sin fascinates, then it assassinates. It thrills, then it kills. It will take you farther than you wanted to go, keep you longer than you wanted to stay, and cost you more than you were willing to pay.” I am seeing that firsthand in my ministry.

I see children who suddenly have their world turned upside down because one or both parents cannot be sexually faithful, or financially responsible, or simply trustworthy. I see grandparents forced to become parents because their adult children won’t accept responsibility for their own progeny. I see forty-somethings who look sixty because of the effects of sin on their bodies. Every week I am forced to help people pick up the pieces of their shattered lives and try to fit them together, only to discover that some pieces are lost forever.

Sin cuts with a wide swath. Its effects are not only visited on the guilty parties.

And while I am speaking with the child whose father is in jail, or praying with the wife whose husband is in the arms of another woman, or trying to raise some financial assistance for the family whose father drank all their grocery money, my mind inevitably turns to the grief my sin has caused others. My sins may have been different, but they have not been safer. Sins are like handgrenades; one can’t control which way the shrapnel flies. I can control my decisions, but I can’t control the consequences of those decisions once I have made them.

I am striving for holiness in my life, but the nearer I draw to Jesus, the more sensitive to sin I become. I am learning that at the heart of all my sin is the suspicion that God is not good, that He has denied me something wonderful. The more contented I become with what God has given me, the less sin entices.

I want to satisfy myself in Christ, because He has given me everything I need for life and godliness. If I am to spend my life binding the wounds that sin has inflicted, at the very least I do not want to be their cause. May I see sin for the lie that it is and hate it with all that is in me, finding contentment in Christ alone.

Sometimes I worry that my students at Southern forget that ministry is not all about finer points of theology, but about people and their need of Christ. Students at Southern are usually brilliant, dedicated, and passionate, though sometimes that passion is misdirected to things not as important as they might think.

I do everything I can think of to keep them rooted in reality. For that reason last week I invited a man from Buck Run to share his testimony with them. In complete candor he spoke with my preaching students about his gambling addiction, how it led to criminal activities and even to thoughts of suicide. He shared with them how he came before the church and confessed his sin and how the church is now holding him accountable and helping his family. I sat in the back of the room and watched my students’ spellbound faces as he unfolded his story with brutal honesty. Eventually he told them, “You can debate theology all you want, but you better remember that you are preaching to idiots like me and you need to say it so we can understand it.”

In the seminary we can and should properly discuss and debate church polity (elders or pastor led?), Calvinism (three, four, or five points?), eschatology (pre, mid, or post trib; pre, post, or a mil), and denominational matters (just how significant are the bloggers? what about the no-alcohol resolution?). That is an important part of seminary. Whatever our opinions on those matters, however, let’s resolve to hate sin, to satisfy ourselves in Christ, and to care more about the victims of our enemy who have fallen prey to his lies. High on my list of theological priorities I place two great foundational truths: that I am satisfied with Christ and a hater of sin.

The 100 Things I Have Learned As a Senior Pastor (Michael Foster)

Posted in Church Life, For Preachers/Pastors, Leadership on August 23, 2006 by Matthew R. Perry

This list is quite good. Michael Foster runs The Gaslight Gospel blog. Any thoughts?

(HT:  Mark Combs)